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#1 : Selfishness Always thinking abt ourselves. Failing to put yrself in other ppl's shoes. Selfishness only causes trouble. You'll do better to trust in God. Phil 2:4 If you plan gd things, u'll reap gd spiritual fruits. Plan Gd seeds in ppl's lives. Focus n pray to kill selfishness. #2 Pride pride leads to argument n strift. They always start with criticism. Aso shows in ppl who's always comparing. Pro 16:18 Pride goes before destrution and a haughty spirit before a fall. Humilty is the adedote. Live in peace n fulfillment. Be compassionate, humble. Humility is the foundation which comes forth love, peace. Our differences dun have to irritate ppl. Humility comes by letting Jesus rule our mind n heart. Be renewed in yr mind. Spend time with Jesus. Change ur thinking. #3 Insecurity Pro29:25 The fear of man brings a snare ( Trap, cripple ) Insercurities brings controlling attitude. Insercurities prevents intamacy. 1: insercure means e fear of exposure. Meaning we fear ppl will know what we're really like. 2: fear of rejection. They fear being rejected by ppl. So we build up walls to others. Jesus was despised n rejected. So we can open up to Him n give Him our fear of rejection. We can have a new life! Bitterness will come into our lives as we build up walls in our lives. Bcos we hold on to the hurts that's y we build up walls. The adedote is love. We replace the emptiness with something else. With e love of God. If i'm always thinking of what ppl will say, i've not accepted the love of God. 1 jn 4:15-18, Focus on God. Willing to try n give it a shot. #4 resentment Job 5:2 The fact is that you cannot change e past. In life, u'll get hurt.We must overcome the hurt. That's y we need ppl to help to counsel us. Bitterness n resentment defile you. Resentment destroy relationships. Adecote is forgiveness. Allow God's love to dwell in our lives. titus 3:2 Forgiveness is letting go of the pain n letting go of the right to get even. Dun get even, get better. Amen